One afternoon Goethe and Beethoven chatted
and strolled together in the valley. As
they walked, passersby saluted, pointed them
out, and bowed with ostentations deference.
"Isn't it maddening?" exclaimed Goethe. "I
simply can't escape this homage."
"Don't be too much distressed by it," said
Beethoven. "It is just possible that some of
it may be for me."
If this story is true, Goethe, the great
German poet, was suffering from a rather
advanced case of pride! None dare question
the poetic ability of Goethe, this is an
established fact. But in the presence of an
equally great man -- Beethoven -- to assume
that homage was to him alone was a mark of
crass human pride. Beethoven did a masterful
job of deflating Goethe's ego.
Pride afflicts many great men --and many not
so great! Its easy for some to become
wrapped up in their self-importance and
think the world revolves around them. Other
people, they believe are around only to
reflect their self-perpetuated glory.
Someone has wisely said that the man who is
wrapped up in his own self-importance makes
a very small package! One can have world
acclaim but not be truly great because of
pride. The larger a man becomes in his own
eyes, the smaller he becomes as a person,
because self importance works to obscure
true greatness.
Is there anything that can be done to
counter the problems of sickening pride?
God has made it possible for us to deal with
this problem. This should come as good news
because pride is one of the ugliest of all
human problems.
The dictionary says that pride is an over
high opinion of
one self it
is exaggerated self esteem. Pride comes from
the Greek word PHUSIOO Which means "to be
puffed up, inflated" --- the idea of a
bellows used by the blacksmith to blow air
on the coals and keep the fire going. Pride
is being filled with hot-air; being puffed
up with the air or self-importance; having
an inflated opinion of oneself.
Pride is like an egg --too full of
themselves to hold anything else, or as
someone said, "Pride is arrogant
self-esteem."
Pride bears an unsavory reputation, but it
also has a positive side. In the good sense,
pride refers to dignity and self-respect. A
person who doesn't possess the dignity of
his own worth goes to the other extreme to
false humility. Don't let the word pride rob
you of your rightful dignity and
self-respect.
But when a person becomes inflated with self
importance, he imitates Lucifer (the Devil),
the father of pride and lies. Lucifer was
beautiful when created by God. He was given
an honored place among the angels (Isaiah
14, Ezekiel 28). He was placed over all the
angels receiving and transmitting glory to
God.
One day he wanted to grab some of the glory
for himself. He thought "I will make myself
like the Most High" (Isaiah 14:14). He
rebelled against God in an effort to boost
his own career ahead of what God intended.
Pride began in the heart of the fallen one,
Lucifer, and all manifestations of pride
since have been fueled by the fires of
hell.
Pride causes us to become impressed with our
own abilities. given enough rope, pride will
eventually make us think we are capable of
operating independently of God; it makes us
feel self sufficient.
Pride falls into several different
categories. We may succumb to the "pride of
position", because of the job we hold. This
is particularly true of many who have
reached the place where they have a carpet
on the floor and a title on the door!
"Pride of position" has a first cousin
called "pride of organization." Churches
are easy prey for this problem. Some put
forth the confident assertion that "we are
the BEST or THE ONLY TRUE ONE in the
world." This is frequently used to
foster esprit de corps among the
members. However, these three words can be
translated by one word -- pride.
Its an error of the highest degree to
suggest everyone should attend their church
because it's the "best" in town. Such claims
show a basic ignorance of a church
personality. No one church is the right
church for everyone in town because churches
have different emphases in their ministry
that serve the particular needs of those in
attendance. This doesn't make them all right
either. Organizational pride originated in
the pits of hell.
Another member of the family of pride is the
"pride of possessions." Unconsciously
people often rate themselves as part of a
certain social strata because of what they
own --- pride of living on the right side of
the tracks, driving a prestige automobile,
or belonging to the country club. People
struggle to own things that outwardly
inflate their egos. The more material
possessions we own, the more we must be on
guard against pride of possessions.
A fourth member of the family is called
"pride of intellect." The modern world has
gone berserk over knowledge and learning. A
Bachelor's Degree is no longer sufficient to
command favored position in the job market.
Now, one must have an M.A. or PH.D. In our
age of dialogue, many Christians have become
overly impressed with their degrees.
Christians should strive to be as well
educated as possible, but at the same time
be on guard against the price of intellect.
TA last child in the family is called,
"pride of accomplishment," or as the
apostle John calls it, "the pride of life"
(I John 2:16). Its an ever present danger to
view success as a result of our own personal
efforts rather than the blessing of God. It
is easy to be humble when faced with
failure, but difficult to do so in the hour
of triumph and success; its easy to depend
on God when we are at the bottom, and easier
still to depend on ourselves when we are at
the top.
When success arrives, the temptation is to
tell God to go help someone else because we
are now able to go it alone.
A farmer knows only certain kinds of plants
grow in a certain type of soil at a certain
altitude and a certain season of the year.
Unfortunately, pride is hearty and thrives
in any climate---in any area of the world.
Look closely and you'll find pride of
position, possessions, intellect, or
accomplishment growing all around you.
When you go to the doctor with a problem,
one of the first things he wants to know is
your symptoms. Once he knows them, he is on
the track of finding the cause of your
illness.
Pride, like a medical malady, has symptoms
that are easily detected. One case study in
pride is the church at Corinth; a cursory
glance reveals several tell-tale signs of
pride.
One symptom of pride is the development of
cliques. Paul struck right in the middle of
this clique-oriented church when he
declared, "For you are still fleshly. For
since there is jealousy and strife among
you, are you not fleshly, and are you not
walking like mere men? For when one says, "I
am of Paul, and another, "I am of Apollos
---(I Cor 3:3-4): " that in us you
might learn not to exceed what is written,
in order that no one of you might become
arrogant in behalf of' one against the other
(I Cor. 4:6).
Pride results when we follow men rather than
a ministry. The Corinthians were guilty of
pride in their man which cause contention
within the church. Someone said, "You can't
raise turkeys and peacocks in the same area
because both are stutters." when we begin to
follow individual men, cliques develop
within the church.
The tendency to gloss over sin is another
symptom of pride. Gross immorality was
prevalent in the church at Corinth, so gross
it made the Gentiles blush. Instead of being
grieved and taking action to root out the
immorality, Paul said the Corinthians had
" become arrogant, and have not
mourned instead, in order that the one who
had done this deed might be removed from
your midst" case of immorality was permitted
to exist believers were too arrogant to deal
with our ability to see things as they
really
(I Cor. 5:2). A flagrant in the church
because the this sin. Pride obscures are.
A third symptom of pride is a lack of
concern for others. The Corinthians used
their liberty in Christ with such an
uncaring attitude that young believers were
damaged.
"But take care lest this liberty of yours
somehow become a stumbling block to the
weak.
For if someone sees you who have knowledge
dining in an idol's temple, will not his
conscience, if he is weak, be strengthened
to eat things sacrificed to idols?
For through your knowledge he who is weak is
ruined, the brother for whose sake Christ
died" (I Cor. 8:9-11).
A person filled with self-importance will
demand his own way or rights, regardless of
the effects on others. Pride makes it easy
to rationalize one's own importance and make
everyone else subservient to his wishes.
pride is deadly! It doesn't come into our
lives with the force of a freight train. It
doesn't come up and say "My name is pride.
How about me sharing your life?" it slips in
subtly and continues to inflate the ego
until it has a stranglehold. By the time its
sinister presence is realized, pride may
have delivered the coup de grace
to your testimony and spiritual life.
The Word of God sets forth three basic
principles which, if followed will deflate
our balloon pride.
First: Be alert to the dangers of pride.
When allowed to exist, Satan will use it to
defeat us. "Prime goes before destruction,
and a haughty spirit before stumbling"
(Proverbs 16:18).
Paul made it clear that a young convert
should not be chosen for roles of
leadership; maturity is a prerequisite for
leadership. "And not a new convert, lest he
become conceited and fall into the
condemnation incurred by the devil" (I Tim.
3:6). A young believer is more apt to
become impressed with his own
self-importance if elevated to a position of
leadership. When this happens, it is a rerun
of Satan's rebellion against God.
Failures of others are recorded in the Bible
as divine objects lessons. Paul detailed
some of the failings of the children of
Israel (I Cor. 10) as object lessons on "how
not to live."
When confronted by the bitter failures of
someone else, we face a danger of letting
pride put words in our mouth such as,” Isn’t
that awful --I would never have thought he
would do that ----I would never do that!"
Paul drives home an important point when he
says, "Therefore let him who thinks he
stands take heed lest he fall." (I Cor.
10:12) We walk along a narrow ledge and are
just as apt to fall into the same sins as
those we quickly condemn. The minute you
think you are beyond the devils reach, the
fall is just around the corner because pride
makes you vulnerable.
Second: Be honest with yourself and God.
Take a good look at yourself in the light of
God's Word, and you'll discover God has a
different opinion of your capacities than
yours. If you want an honest evaluation of
what you are really like, read the Word of
God (not your autobiography). The Bible
doesn't give a touched up version of man;
like a mirror, it tells it like it really
is. Any man who sees himself as someone to
be admired makes it evident he has not given
much thought of God's evaluation of
himself.
Paul gives an unvarnished treatment of the
basic nature of all men in his epistle to
the Romans. Listen to his description of us
in Chapter three.
"There is none righteous, not even one.
There is none who understands, there is none
who seeks for God, all have turned aside,
together they have become useless; there is
none who does good, there is not even one.
Their throat is an open grove, with their
tongues they keep deceiving, the poison of
asps in under their lips; whose mouth is
full of cursing and bitterness; their feet
are swift to shed blood, destruction and
misery are in their paths, and the path of
peace have they not known. There is no fear
of God before their eyes." (Romans 3:10-18)
Don't try to escape by saying Paul is
describing the pagans in his day, as so many
do this day. Go back and read the statement
of universality like "NONE" and
"ALL" . Yes, God includes all of us in
His description of what man is really like.
Incidentally, the Bible description of man
is a good argument for the divine
inspiration of Scripture. No man in his
right mind would write a book containing
such a universal condemnation of himself.
Man wouldn't, but God did!
We can't bypass the effects of our "badness"
by being super good. Some might try to
circumvent the awfulness of their nature by
doing loads of good deeds. Isaiah set God's
stamp of disapproval on all our self-help
projects: "For all of us have become like
one who is unclean, and all our righteous
deeds are like a filthy garment ---" (Isa.
64:6).
Do you take rags used to wipe up grease and
lay them up in the closet with your best
linens? The filthy rags of our righteousness
will never, and can never, be placed with or
in God's "linen closet" of righteousness.
A word of caution. While being realistic
about who we are we are to evaluate
ourselves honestly. Even though we are not
what we might think, we are somebody. He
says, "For through the grace given to me, I
say to every man among you not to think more
highly of himself than he ought to think;
but to think so as to have sound judgment,
as God has allotted to each a measure of
faith." (Romans 12:3)
This reminds us that we are somebody, not
just a speck of dust in the totality of a
vast universe.
Realizing we are somebody, we are to take an
honest look at who we are in the sight of
God. While we are not to over think (huperphroneo),
we are not to under think either. We
are to exercise sound judgment concerning
ourselves. Sound judgment (saphroneo) means
"to be in one's right mind." One man
suggested Paul treats pride as a species of
insanity. Failure to agree with the
evaluation of yourself in the Word of God is
pride.
The story is told of a young girl who
confessed to the Catholic priest she had
incurred the sin of vanity.
"What makes you think that?" he asked.
"Because every morning when I look into the
mirror," she replied, "I think how beautiful
I am".
Never fear," said the priest, "that isn't a
sin -- that's just a mistake."
Third: Be thankful to god
for what you are. If you have attained
anything, give the glory to God because it
came from Him in the first place.
Thank God for your position as a gift from
Him. In the famous passage on the vine and
branches, Jesus declared, " for apart
from ME you can do nothing" (John 15:5).
Promotions do not come from the employer,
but from God. They are not based upon one's
super ability, but upon His grace. When
promoted, it is right and proper to
acknowledge the role of the employer; but he
is only fulfilling the decree of God.
Position in life is a grace gift from God.
If you have been blessed with a high
salaried job with prestige, great! Give God
the credit for placing you where you are. If
your job is one of lesser means, praise God
who has placed you in the best position
possible for you.
Our possessions likewise come from God.
James makes this clear: "every good thing
bestowed and every perfect gift is from
above, coming down from the Father of light,
with whom there is no variation, or shifting
shadow: (Jamesl:17). Possessions do not
result from native abilities and shrewd
planning, but from God's grace. Now it
doesn't mean we are not to plan properly. It
means we are receivers of God's gifts, not
the originators. Since God gave them, we
have no basis for an inflated opinion of
ourselves based on our possessions.
wisdom is also God's gift (not our
brainpower): "But if any of you lacks
wisdom, let him ask of God, who gives to all
men generously and without reproach, and it
will be given to him" (James 1-:5).
God is the dispenser of wisdom to His
creatures: "For who regards you as superior?
and what do you have that you did not
receive? But if you did receive it, why do
you boast as if you had not received it?" (I
Cor. 4:7). The differences between men is a
result of the creative activity of God.
Face the facts. What we are and have are
visible results of God's grace. Since we
received these blessings from God, what
right do we have to be puffed up with pride?
None! Take some practical advice from the
words of Paul: "But may it never be that I
should boast, except in the cross of our
Lord Jesus Christ, through which the world
has been crucified to me, and I to the
world" (Gal. 6:14).
Spend time giving glory to God for His act
of love at Calvary, and you will not have
time to puff up your own ego. Rather, you
will be drawn up short in worship of the
Lord God. Self-glory is strangely out of
place when you are giving glory to Christ
---the only one who deserves any glory.
If we aren't careful pride might sneak into
our lives, and before we know it, we'll be
puffed up with a bad case of self
importance. If this should happen to you,
you can deflate that ego if you will.
Following what
God says you will find it easy to deal with
the nasty problem of pride.
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